How do you feel today, on a scale of one to Adele? Is it going to make you blast “Someone Like You” and cry into your ice cream if we inform you it’s National Ex-Spouse Day on April 14?
National Ex-Spouse Day
There’s no necessity. National Ex Spouse Day, which coincidentally falls two months after Valentine’s Day, has become a time to reminisce about the good times you had with your ex. Yes, it is right. You married them, after all. Before they snapped, there must have been something you liked.
Consider them warmly before you rejoice over their passing.
How To Observe National Ex- Spouse Day
Make everything about you!
Today is a fantastic day to focus on yourself if you’ve just divorced. Many activities are easier to do when you’re single and don’t have to consider the opinions of others. So, as a single lady or lad, make a list of five goals you want to achieve. Instead of sulking in bed or going on to the third wine spritzer, this will give you some focus and allow you to start moving ahead.
Spend quality time with your children
It’s a wonderful day to hug them and express gratitude for the beauty that resulted from your collaboration. Take them out for ice cream and chuckle at their antics (or their whining). You may sit there and smile, knowing that they inherited your greatest qualities and your ex’s less desirable ones.
One person’s trash is another person’s treasure
Are there any objects that remind you of your ex that you still have? Put them in the trunk of your car, drive to the nearest donation facility, and give them to someone who would appreciate them. Grab those stuff and make a bonfire if this seems like a lot of energy to spend into an ex. Yes, we understand that National Ex-Spouse Day is a happy occasion. But who’s ever been sad around a bonfire?
Why National Ex- Spouse Day Is Important?
Don’t forget to think on good things
When you mention their ex-spouse, many people become Bitter Bettys (or Bobs). But, as we’ve already stated, now is not the day to judge them (or your relationship). Remember why you chose to go down the aisle at your big wedding — or that drive-thru in Las Vegas. Consider the joyful times that made you laugh and grew closer as a couple.
You don’t have to put up with their unpleasant behaviors any more
What was the most vexing habit of your ex-partner? (Be patient; we don’t have much time here.) It’s a chance to rejoice that you don’t have to deal with them any more, from chewing gum to restroom manners. But, because today is intended to be a cheerful occasion, we’ll make you counteract each bad idea with a pleasant one.
But wait, there’s more: I’m still married
There are still things you can do to honor National Ex-Spouse Day if you’re still in a nice marriage (or on your fifth). Take a time to consider what makes your relationship work and what you adore about your significant other. If you’re dissatisfied in your marriage, though, today may be the day you declare them your (fifth) ex-spouse. We’re not promoting; we’re simply stating the facts.
